So here it goes ... I'm 24, im in my first serious relationship and I couldn't have picked a better guy , or maybe I could've ? My boy friend for 9 months has a 10 year old son who became so attached to me from the start that he asks for me when I'm away from them and even calls my phone . I met him extremely early in our relationship , the boy was actually with us for our first date. We went bowling and it was fun and we were all happy but that went sour when I realized he would be around for everything else after that .