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Submitted by kkoenig1028 on Tue, 02/28/2012 - 8:11pm

Is there anyone else out there who just hates the person they become when their Step Child is around??
I love my SS, but my previous blog about not being able to separate the feelings i have for his BM and him make it hard to enjoy his company. I hate that i cant fix that because it is not his fault that his BM is who she is. He didn't make that choice, so why do i feel the overwhelming amount of stress and irritation when he is here??

cant separate the feelings

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Submitted by kkoenig1028 on Mon, 02/27/2012 - 11:35am

So my SS is 4 and i cant stand his BM. She is hateful and selfish and irritatingly scorned at the fact that I am the one who married her son's father. We have had our fights about how things should go when he is with her and with us. We let her know when he is having a hard time over here but we cant get her to actually put forth any type of rules for him at her house because she knows it is more work for us if he acts out when he is here. Plus she knows that giving him whatever he wants is a good way to keep him close when he gets older.