So as I mentioned in previous post bm is extremely flaky. Can't count the Times she's told the kids they could see her to only later cancel on them or have some lame excuse as to why she can't get em. I'm so fed up with her it's not even funny. She only gets them when it's a convenience for her. They don't see it cuz they love their mommy. And it makes me sick! From what I've read on here it's likely I will never be appreciated for what I do as a step mom but she will forever be MOTY regardless of what she does or doesn't do. I'm about to lose it! So anyway for some more history...