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Update. Well BM went off the deep end

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Submitted by JustanotherSM17 on Sat, 12/21/2024 - 8:03pm

As I knew she would and show her true hateful self.  Can you believe after all this shit someone dropped SD 15 off at the ex husbands house and just expected DH to get her . BM made her mother drop off SD after her mother went and drove maybe 2 hours to meet her ( yes, all because SD wanted to go to this party) both BM and her mother made all the arrangements ( BM is sitting comfort at home and barking orders) while DH was at his appt so he didn't reply until he got out .

Hi me again, is this insane ?

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Submitted by JustanotherSM17 on Sat, 12/21/2024 - 9:51am

Sorry I'm hogging the board this weekend but man BM is really just pissing me off and I have to vent! After taking a 2 year hiatus from dumping SD around the holidays she is back! The original plan was for BM to come into town ( they live about 3 hours away)  on Monday after SD Dr appt. SD15 was gonna stay with us Monday night and Tuesday night and BM would get SD Christmas Day sometime. Well now BM is trying to find people to get SD and bring her to our house today ?!?!

Just venting frustrations on Steplife holidays

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Submitted by JustanotherSM17 on Fri, 12/20/2024 - 5:26pm

You know I think us step folks pack on a extra layer on stess. Especially if you have a blended family, dis functional BM and PAS stepkid. BM has told DH that we get to have SD 15 ( yes aren't we so lucky ) on Monday -Tuesday and BM will get SD early Christmas morning . Ok cool no worries there I guess (in laws celebrate on Christmas Eve, us as a family open gifts Christmas morning ) then she ask if we are doing anything for New Year's Eve. I wanna say " um excuse me?

Tis was the week before Christmas

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Submitted by JustanotherSM17 on Mon, 12/16/2024 - 8:44pm

And the stirring has started in steplife world. SD15 has not been over since we saw her briefly on Thanksgiving. Well this weekend coming is her weekend to come so we shall see! I know for sure she will be over on Christmas Eve to collect her gifts ( DH family celebrates Christmas on Christmas Eve) and of course BM has already made plans for SD to grace us with her presence on Christmas Eve .

Thanksgiving and years beyond

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Submitted by JustanotherSM17 on Sat, 11/30/2024 - 5:53pm

Sooo thanksgiving was okay with my in laws . I was shocked to hear that BM decided on thanksgiving to drive into town. We met her on the way to MIL house, I asked DH if BM would be getting SD from MIL or if we needed to take her back home ( I knew SD was gonna try to stay the whole weekend since she missed her weekend) . DH didn't know so I dropped it. Over the few years since my family stopped doing holidays together due to conflict scheduling, I had to spend pretty much all the holidays with MIL and SIL which includes being around SIL drunk husband.

STFU about the list ! OMFG

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Submitted by JustanotherSM17 on Wed, 11/27/2024 - 4:55pm

I'm sorry but I just want to scream this ! Every freaking year, every holiday BM has to find a way to bug and or start drama ! That is about the only thing she is consistent on. This year since I guess SD is not getting anywhere on her texting DH wanting to be picked up tomorrow, enter BM. She started sending DH SD15 Christmas list unprovoked. SD had already sent DH her list weeks ago. Normally I have finally gotten to the point where I am not affected by BM or SD but DH is constantly complaining and I ask him what is going on? And he is like it's this damn list !

Taking a step BACK this Xmas.

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Submitted by JustanotherSM17 on Sun, 11/24/2024 - 7:25pm

I have decided this year I'll be taking a much needed step back from getting SD 15 a lavish gift. She already sent her Christmas list to DH in which she asked for her usual lululemon outfits, skims and such. I think DH gave her cash last year since he opted out on giving her skims and that stuff. Of course, SIL loves to spoil her with lululemon since SD was about 10.

The holiday season. Aka steplife hell

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Submitted by JustanotherSM17 on Fri, 11/22/2024 - 11:22am

Yea low I got use to BM dropping SD 15 on anyone she could every single holiday . For weeks at a time and dodging spending time with her child for thanksgiving or Christmas. It was always the excuse " well I'm not doing anything so she would have more fun with you guys" well now that SD 15 is old enough to voice her thoughts turns out that NO she would rather not spend the whole holiday with us and I was shocked ( well not really) that SD only come around on Christmas Eve for about 3 hours to collect her gifts and go.

It’s been while.. here we go!

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Submitted by JustanotherSM17 on Thu, 09/19/2024 - 9:54am

Things have been ok so far. BM is still a pain but we don't  hear from her hardly as much. Sadly I feel things are calm because SD is now never around . She plays volleyball in a club and now at school where she is a freshman so her schedule is literally full. We were hoping that she would start coming more when she got a break from the club but there she joined volleyball at her school so it's been non stop. She missed both her sisters b day in June and July , SD only came the weekend of her 15th birthday which was in August .

BM Monopolized Fathers Day

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Submitted by JustanotherSM17 on Tue, 06/11/2024 - 8:55pm

Now in the past I would have probably would not have cared of SD was coming on her weekend with DH . But since all the drama we went through and her not coming for months and months at a time , DH is finally pushing for stability ( he should have been pushing for his weekend all along ) he has a serious talk with SD14 and told her if it's his weekend she needs to be with him period . SD14 expressed that she has been wanting to come and see her siblings . Her last visit went so well and I thought we were moving forward to becoming more close . I actually enjoyed her company .

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