So SD15 has told DH that she will be coming this weekend ( DH weekend to have her ) . The drive for DH if he leaves after rush hour traffic (after 5:30pm) is about 2 hours . Since BM has moved which has been about 4 years I think, DH has always met her around the same time which is can be a little late but the drive is a bit far . The earlier he has met BM was 7pm but with construction going on constantly he normally meets her around 8 .

I'm sure most of you are aware of the absolute crap show  SD15 pulled the whole week of Christmas. She has not apologized for her behavior nor did she even reach out to DH to even tell him Merry Christmas. I have had my fair share of limits with SD, I tried to be nothing but nice to SD and I got pooped on, I tried disengage and it worked for a while until crap like this comes up and it absolutely unavoidable. I know it's not my right to tell DH that SD is not allowed here due to her behavior but I really really don't want to be around her.

As I knew she would and show her true hateful self.  Can you believe after all this shit someone dropped SD 15 off at the ex husbands house and just expected DH to get her . BM made her mother drop off SD after her mother went and drove maybe 2 hours to meet her ( yes, all because SD wanted to go to this party) both BM and her mother made all the arrangements ( BM is sitting comfort at home and barking orders) while DH was at his appt so he didn't reply until he got out .

You know I think us step folks pack on a extra layer on stess. Especially if you have a blended family, dis functional BM and PAS stepkid. BM has told DH that we get to have SD 15 ( yes aren't we so lucky ) on Monday -Tuesday and BM will get SD early Christmas morning . Ok cool no worries there I guess (in laws celebrate on Christmas Eve, us as a family open gifts Christmas morning ) then she ask if we are doing anything for New Year's Eve. I wanna say " um excuse me?