Good Moring ladies, it’s been awhile. I am trying very hard to just stay out of things that are not my concern, not disengaged but not totally there either. So I haven’t had much to vent about. I still lurk and comment here and there, but this weekend has gotten me to a place I need STALK.

Older SS9 is ALL his mother, he is bratty, self entitled, anti social, whiney, wimpy and glued to his ipad. And with the ipad comes face time. I f*&King hate face time. This might get long winded so I am going to outline with bullets my complaints with FACETIMING MOMMMMYYYYY! and OSS!

Let me explain. The bar SO and I go to when we go out is having their Christmas party in a couple of weeks. We go every year, its fun we get to see friends we don’t see often, free buffet and the food is amazing. Well this year the party falls on a skid weekend. SO is determined to go. I on the other hand rather just call it a night. Here are our options to go; I don’t like any of them. 1) We can ask SO’s Mom to watch them, I really rather not for the following reasons.

It has been a while, between power being out and random internet service I just wanted to check in and see how everyone is doing. We are hanging in, not much damage where I am, we never lost power no damage to our house. Trying to get gas is insane, other then that all is good. How is everyone else holing up? I hope everyone is safe! On a funny not wishing Sandy would have swept up all these crazy BM's lol

So this weekend is my bday. We have a wedding to go to on Saturday night and SO's Mom is taking us out to eat for my Bday Friday night. BM texts SO and ask if we can watch the boys Friday night (we just had them last weekend) it is the only night she can get out with her married boyfriend. NOT MY FUCKING PROBLEM. SO lies and says I can't I am doing a side job. I do not want her to know what are plans are, but he should have said no, I plan my weekends around the visitation rotation I have a life too. But NO he FUCKING LIES!!