Days like today make me rethink this relationship.
It is always something with BM. I posted a blog about the xmas party. On Monday she calls SO because SS jumped off a chair and hurt his ankel and she wasn't sending him to school. OK UMMMM where were you when these boys were screwing around like this. SO punches out loses 2 hours pay to pick up ss and bring him to his Moms house. When he gets there ss is running around playing like nothingis wrong. Obviously he wasn't hurt that bad, but she keeps these kids home for everything. Anyway she tell SO to make a Dr appointment, SO says NO I have to go back to work. Mind you the Dr would have just sent him to the ER for an xray. All day ss is running around SO's Moms house. Come 6 o'clock she texts SO asking if he can bring him home. We live a good half hour away from skids. SO sayS no, but in my mind I am screaming that is all you said. How about NO I LOST 2 HOURS PICKING HIM UP AND BRINGING HIM TO MY MOMS FOR NOTHING ARE YOU FUCKING SERIOUS!! Where does this bitch think she in entilted to all of this. You left him you don't get the perks of a 2 parent home you gave that up. Little back story they had a falling out about 2 weeks ago and she told him DO NOT call or text my cell, call the house. His response was lets do as the laywers advised and email. This lasred till Monday when she needed something. Today she calls him and asks if he can take older SS to some relgious thing, SO says NO I am working till 7 I can't keep leaving work and losing pay. So she goes on her rant about money and visitationa and so on blah blah blah. It is ALWAYS something, it will always be SOMETHING. I have taken myself out of things that don't really concern me. Not my kids not my problem, not my ex not my problem. BUt for fuck sake is this what the rest of my life is going to be like?!?!
SO does try to put her in her place but it falls on deaf ears she has "golden uterus" syndrome. The last 2 weeks have been great nnot hearing from her for every little thing and now it's back to 24/7 acess. I become more and more distant from him. I don't even want to look at him anymore. I really want out, but I love him and it so hard!
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wow! i feel the same way! i
wow! i feel the same way! i hear you!
that bitch ex of his always needs something!!!! it's always something! never happy! shit up already and just live your life!!!!! stop interfering with ours! and just like you i try to ignore the fact of her existance and live by the rule "not my kids, not my problem, not my ex not my problem" but honestly i just want her gone...move somewhere to a different planet or some shit!
and same thing...she leaves skids home for everything!!!! oh you have a paper cut..stay home! you have a little cough stay home! you had a bad dream stay home! and then calls my husband that ss is sick and need to be driven to the doctors!!!!! GET UP YOUR FAT ASS AND DO IT YOURSELF!
FUCK....i hear you! pisses me off too!!! as soon as i see her text or call my hands start shaking!!! and i just want to screma! WHAT DA FUCK DOES SHE WANT NOOOOOOOOOOOOOW!!!!!
ignoring it does not help!
OMG do we have the same BM.
OMG do we have the same BM. OHHH you stubbed your toe, stay home, oh no you have a hang nail stay home, OMG an eyelash fell out stay home. My BM works and thinks MY SO should lose pay to take care of them BUT he still has to pay. Lets not forget how she takes days off of work becuase she breaks up with her married BF for a whole 30 hours and need to sit home and cry!!
but honestly i just want her gone...move somewhere to a different planet or some shit!
^^^^^^^^^^^^^THIS^^^^^^^^^^^^
I often wish the earth would open up and swallow her. I just want her gone. I often tell SO if she isn't going to go away maybe I should. But like most of these SO's and DH's they don't get it!
It is excatly what she
It is excatly what she does!!!! Wants him to drop everything but in the same breath PAY PAY PAY PAY. I have given up on drawing lines, he can draw them she still crosses them. Yes he says no but he says yes just as much!! I was a single parent and did alot on MY OWN because I knew I was taking on the responsibility of a 2 parent home and yes it was hard but I stepped up and did it.
How old are your skids? We
How old are your skids? We had these issues with BM2 when DH and I were first together. Even though she had a BF, she would call DH about every stupid little freeking thing. I mean DUMB! Like "How do I fill out a job application", "How do I get car insurance", I mean the woman is 38 years old for cripes sake! Of couse a MAJORITY of this is actually DH fault because he created the monster. They broke up about 6 months after SS was born, but DH catered to BM for YEARS! buying her groceries, paying her rent, buying her cars, etc. It took him a while to wean her off his teat, but it has gotten better in the last couple of years.
I think because SS is older now (13.5) and can stay at home by himself when BM needs to run off with her boy toy, work part time or go to her cult church place 3 times a week, so she isn't calling for babysitting all the time, and we also bought a house last year about 30 minutes from her, so DH told her flat out that he was not driving all over creation at her beckon call anymore..
Oh, she still has the golden uterus, you owe me because I have your kid syndrome.. but DH FINALLY stopped caring.
They are 5 and 8. I think it
They are 5 and 8. I think it will be a while before SO will stop caring, not sure I will be around long enough to see that day!
Yeah, if my skids were
Yeah, if my skids were younger, I wouldn't have been able to stick it out.. no way no how. That is just too long of a haul. Sorry
She must be related to our
She must be related to our BM. I would pay good money to see SD12s medical records. A runny nose and the bitch takes her to the ER. It is ridiculous. She misses school for everything from a hangnail to it's raining too hard.
ladies! i think they have a
ladies! i think they have a manual what to do when you divorce! stupid bitches! you had kids (in my case unwanted kids, my husband was aganst having them, but regardless the fact) so take care of them! it is your responsibility!!! what were you thinking when u had them! my husband pays her mortgage and of course on top of everything extra curriculum activities and clothes and the rest of the shit those brats don't need and she still calls and texts her life away!!!! ER is right...and antibiotics for EVERYTHING!!!! oh you poor baby did your tooth fall out here are antibiotics for that! fuuuuuuuck!