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Submitted by somerg on Wed, 03/09/2011 - 4:03pm

ok so apparently i've offened ppl on here and been dubbed the bm with "the golden uterus" that most of you on here vent about.

i'm sorry that i have and someone did bring it to my attention that the anger i have with my dd's smom does come out on here....i'll admit, it does. I have no where else to go, i've googled bm's ranting about ex's and smom's and what not, but got no where. and there's not many ppl in my life in my shoes that i can "vent to"

yeah my posts are a little crazy, they are not all things i've actually done but they ARE what i'd like to do (that's for sure)

i've been done wrong big time by smom and ex although when it comes to visitation he and i usually can come to terms, unless........that's a whole other blog

i'm not going to try to fully defend myself on my posts, but like most on here it gets it out for me and i'm able to go home and "play nice" i've been playing the "nice" game for waaaaaaaaaay too long and have decided i'm disengaging on smom and ex....if THEY want to be a part of my dd's life THEY will make the attempt with out me babysitting them or "over stepping"-ex usually forgets, that's his problem, i'm done.

i'm making a sincere apology, and i do mean it.

please don't try to bring up past posts or points i have made in contradiction to this, i have made the decision i have made to make it better for me and try to be more supportive for you guys.

once again, sorry

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Submitted by Rags on Wed, 03/09/2011 - 4:30pm

somerg,

I have not found anything that I have read of your's to be a problem.

Vent away.

Best regards,

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Submitted by somerg on Wed, 03/09/2011 - 5:55pm

this doesn't mean that i wont vent and post about the smom in my life....she's a real hoot i guess the reason i dont vent about the bm in my life is because i have no real vent, she and i don't interact and as long as dh follows through with his promise to me and starts enforcing what he CAN enforce instead of "keeping the peace" then we'll be alright.........well, dh and i will, skids and bm will be pissed but their turn

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Submitted by somerg on Wed, 03/09/2011 - 6:50pm

that's the part i have a hard time with i guess, picking out those that are "anti bm" or those who's opinions are worth while

Rags's picture

Submitted by Rags on Wed, 03/09/2011 - 7:01pm

I am anti bad parent. Sparent, BioParent, makes no difference to me. Bad is bad and I detest them all.... the bad ones anyway.

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Submitted by Rags on Wed, 03/09/2011 - 7:16pm

Bad parent:

Manipulative
Toxic
Evil
Childish
Detestable
Worthless
Ignorant
Poor Example
Self Serving

(Fill in the blank) with anything else that you don't like and is detrimental to the Skids or your family.

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Submitted by somerg on Wed, 03/09/2011 - 7:26pm

we're ALL guilty of this listing at some point or another while raising a child....sparents and bio's either all the time or occasionally

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Submitted by somerg on Wed, 03/09/2011 - 7:22pm

could you pm me and tell me what blog you go to to vent about the ex and sparents? i have looked and looked and looked and looked and it ALWAYS pulls up step parenting sites............. Sad

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Submitted by Rags on Wed, 03/09/2011 - 7:26pm

I dog on my XW occassionally. But, we did not spawn so there is no Sparent to include in my XW rants.

I am good with rants about your X and your BKs SM.

Rants and vents about idiots are free game and equall learning opportunities IMHO. Regardless of Bio or Step status.