:sick: Ok, my 12 year old step is just nasty. Thankfully only here every other weekend, but that weekend causes me to regret the whole blended family idea. 1st, her hair is long and strait and she just lets it hang down in her face, she only washes it when we make her so it's greasy, and then she won't brush it or do anything with it. 2nd, she doesn't wipe or flush. I know she doesn't wipe because their's never any toilet paper in the toilet and her underware is blackened, crusty and stanky. Literally crusty from front to back and the white underware is black.