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Submitted by hrtbroke40 on Wed, 09/29/2010 - 5:08am

As you all know Dh is now an ex and has been gone for over a week with no contact. Yesterday he came to get the rest of his things and left a note asking for SD's nintendo ds back. I bought her this for Christmas and she lost it. well, i found it while moving and told her I would not give it back it if I found it. Everytime we told her to look for it she would get mad and pout about looking. She thought that was our job. So now I don't know whether to give it back to her or keep it. The thing cost me 140. What would you guys do?

BELIEVE IT!!!

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Submitted by hrtbroke40 on Thu, 09/23/2010 - 7:15am

Well, if you guys are reading my blogs you know that DH left Sunday with SD in tow. Yesterday I took his phone off my cell account and later in the afternoon she called my daughter from her very own cell. Now I remind you this child is just 8. When he leaves like this he always takes her and buys her everything so he does not look like the bad guy. This time is over the top. Who gives an 8yo a cell phone? He and I both had discussed that issue numerous times. Will he ever figure out that this is what makes her such a spoiled brat and the way she is?

blog hog..forgive me

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Submitted by hrtbroke40 on Tue, 09/21/2010 - 6:59am

Sorry that I am blogging so much but it does help just to get things out in the open. I feel so much better today. DH who is now exDH has not tried to contact me at all. He is being real hurtful to me in some things that he is doing. I keep thinking that I am better off and really am going to get mentally healthy from all of this. I know what we had was never mentally healthy. Why all that changed is beyond me. Dating was so good but as soon as the I do's were said EVERYTHING changed. It was truly like someone flipped a switch.

loneliness

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Submitted by hrtbroke40 on Mon, 09/20/2010 - 6:50am

I have had only a few hours of sleep. Mainly cause I hate being by myself. I feel for the SD8 who does not know a stable home and may never get the chance since DH does not know stability or how to create it. After being left numerous times I really think it is time to throw in the towel and walk into a new life. A new fresh start that will hopefully be a little stress free. I won't have the SD doing sneaky things behind my back or talking to me the way she does. She is our main problem so now it is removed.

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Submitted by hrtbroke40 on Sun, 09/19/2010 - 10:07pm

Well, DH left today and is not coming home. Says he does not know why he married me and does not believe in counselling so there is nothing I can do at this point. All I know is I tried and have hurt for 41/2 years or more from the neglect I have felt from him. That is a long time to go without any affection or intimacy. I guess he just wanted a mother for his child. I hope I hear how that all turns out.

What makes her so special

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Submitted by hrtbroke40 on Fri, 09/17/2010 - 8:09pm

What exactly makes my SD so special that FDH can just melt at what she wants or demands. SD8 has a way of just getting everything and is sneaky in telling on SM. SM is more like BM since SD has no recolleciton of BM. SM has had SD since 3 and now she is turning into this monster who tattles on SM for everything in her version. SD takes on new tone when DH comes home. SD gets whiny and a real attitude toward everyone and it is ok. FDH says nothing to SD even when Teacher sends home notes about bad behavior in school.