First of all, I love my stepdaughter who is a teenager. We get along great, except for the fact of her mother. It takes her a while to warm up to me after she's been around her mother. My problem is with my husband and my son. My husband is a stepdad to my son who is a teenager. My son went to live with his dad recently, visits on the weekend. When my SD is around we can't do anything unless it is what she wants to do. If she doesn't want to go camping we don't go. If my son wants to go hunting, fishing, etc with stepdad he won't take him unless stepdaughter has other plans.