I have been married less than two years, and am very much in love with DH. I have no bio children, and this is my first (and hopefully only!) marriage. We have SS8 and SS11 50 percent of the time. Dh and I have our conflicts with different parenting styles (reformed Disney dad), my expectations of behavior in our home, BM drama, and sometimes my being the "second wife" and not the "Golden Uterus" sucks. We are navigating things well and DH is receptive to my needs, parents the kids, and tries to be a good husband and dad. Sometimes I have to light a fire under his ass, but he tries.