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exFDH's sister is going to be working at the same place I do

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Submitted by honey0 on Tue, 12/11/2012 - 10:35am

exFDH has a sister, that absolutely hated me while I was with him. I don't know what she thinks now, but I'm sure she's not fond of me, anyway. She's going to be working at the same place I do,and she'll proably be a superior to me. Even if she isn't, I'm going to be around her for 8 hours , 5 days a week. Occasional Saturdays. Or prolonged work days.
I am terrified.

Left some stuff there

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Submitted by honey0 on Fri, 12/07/2012 - 5:59pm

I left some stuff at my ex-FDH's place and I have no idea how to pick it up. It's weekend, so there's a good chance that the house will be full of SD's friends,and I really don't feel comfortable going there. Especially not after she got her way and broke up our relationship. There's no way I'm taking my daughter there, but it's bad for me alone,too.
I am worried and I just needed to tell someone. Maybe some ideas how to relax,and how to behave there? I will call ex-FDH to tell him I'm picking the stuff up, but it's gonna be more awkward to do it than to just plan it.

SD21 coming this month

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Submitted by honey0 on Wed, 12/05/2012 - 9:38am

She's in another country but she's coming for holidays. As she adores her little sister,I'm absolutely terrified of what kind of sh*t will her visit turn into.
SD is all happy about it and so is FDH,which is normal and I don't mind that. But I mind the fact that she'll probably treat me the same way as SD does,or at least protect and support SD when she does it. Being older,more independent, there's even less that can be done if she is bad to me.
Good part is that I decided-if there is more sh*t here,I'm leaving

They got in a "little argument" at school

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Submitted by honey0 on Wed, 12/05/2012 - 6:46am

SD14 and BD14 got back from school, my daughter rushed to her room, SD went to buy chocolate. (There's loads of chocolate in the house but she wants one with strawberry not the hazelnut one or the milk one we have) FDH had his lunch break moved because of a meeting so he got home at that time,and when he saw BD run to her room barely even talking to us,he asked SD what was wrong before she went out.

:( shut up

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Submitted by honey0 on Tue, 12/04/2012 - 11:19am

SD got back home from shopping,and now she's showing FDH what she got. tshirts, jeans, a dress, new sneakers, a jacket, golden earrings (dear god WHAT THE..),loads of make up and she does not NEED any of that! She has so many things already. But she's now showing it to her father,who's absolutely thrilled to dedicate to her showing him her new make up,and even though he can't make a difference between eyeliner and lipgloss,he's happy to listen to her go on and on about it. i tried to actually talk to him during this,nah. princess is here and i'm invisible. :sick:

SD won't shut up , ANOTHER SD coming for holidays..ugh

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Submitted by honey0 on Mon, 12/03/2012 - 1:45pm

SD's aunt is taking her shopping tomorrow. She won't shut up about how she's gonna get awesome stuff and I can't listen to it anymore. ugh. we heard it the first 20 times, it's enough. oh sorry, your other aunt thinks its interesting. ok, go on. talk till my ears bleed.
oh auntie and your hateful looks are really appropriate,that's a nice thing to teach your niece. grrr grgr grrrrr.

SD14 and BD14 issue

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Submitted by honey0 on Mon, 12/03/2012 - 10:17am

I talked to my daughter-she says that she was on the stairs going to take more money (her own, saved from birthday! she did not ask from FDH so that could not have caused jelaousy) and SD attacked her. Which was possible and I actually do believe her. It's not that I'm picking sides because it's my daughter VS Step daughter,it's just that my daughter is not someone that'd just go and attack someone just like that. SD is, though she sees things as reasons even when they're not.

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