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OT-Stressed? If you answer yes, watch The Happy Movie...it will change your life!

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I have to say that with all the craziness that being married to someone with kids brings, my life, just as many of yours, has been in turmoil for years. I read it here all the time, just as I saw in my own life, that it literally takes over everything...but I want you all to try and have at least ONE happy day, even when BM and her crazy kids are driving you nuts...because I have been there and the stress has truly taken a toll on my health.

OT - anyone looking to feel better...watch Fat, Sick & Nearly Dead

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I have to say that for the last couple of years I seem to always get sick vs. before...I have told my DH many times we need to change our eating habits, but being a manly man lol, he always said "sure, you can do it yoursel". Well, we watched this movie a week ago and my husband is hooked. We have changed what we eat in just a week, although we do not follow this regimen to a T, ie. no fasting, etc...and I have to say I have NEVER IN MY LIFE had as much energy as I do now...My husband is ALSO super happy.

a day at the CS office in Texas...and this my dear friends, is what happens...PATHETIC

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So, we go to the CS office to get this CS mess resolved. Here are some things that I found just pathetic.

STORY OF CS TAKEN OUT OF SON'S WAGES vs DAD's

There was one old BLIND MAN who is obviously a blue collar worker or had been with this son. The man is there because he was supposed to pay CS for his son, who is now about 24yrs old, but because he was disabled for the last 10 years or so...yes BLIND...he could not afford to pay what he was originally asked to pay. The man has accumulated ARREARS because of it.

OT-Fathers who sleep with their kids...interesting study...as I know MANY here are 100% against it

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So, I read this scientific study today and thought about StepTalk, as I know that is a VERY HOT topic here. Mind you, I do NOT believe that ESPECIALLY fathers should be sleeping with their kids if the parents are divorced because there is a VERY HIGH probability that the crazy BM will make up some BS abuse story and well, I don't think it's worth putting OUR families in danger...But, for your OWN bios, those who want your husband to BOND and take better care of YOUR kids together, here is something to consider...

OT-for SMOMs out there, your house, the kids house? of course, different for BMs

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With so many of us dealing with crap from ILs and BMs about the "house of the kids" and that no matter if WE pay in FULL for our homes or wether we pay for that house with our DHs, there's always some idiot trying to tell us how it's THE SKIDs house...here's something to laugh about.

OT-for those whose DHs have kids with loser women, welfare moms or preggo SDs

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I am currently reading this book and I have to say it has really opened my eyes. I know many here whose DHs had kids with some loser welfare nut or SDs who have continued to live that same life by getting preggo as teens, etc...if you enjoy reading, read this. Heck, even if you are die hard republican or die hard democrat, you should read this lol

Promises I Can Keep: Why Poor Women Put Motherhood before Marriage, With a New Preface

OT-so DH is finally fed up with his mother, brother and the whole gang...

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So, I posted the other day we were planning to go to my DH's mother's house...but after he called, we realized we could not (there were elections here, people get crazy on the streets, police are out everywhere, they live far, blah, blah, blah), as it would be a nightmare and possibly dangerous. HE CALLED HER BACK and told her it would have to be another day, that he had not realized that it was the day of the elections, etc...

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