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BM response makes me feel hopeless

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Submitted by heidimutter on Thu, 10/29/2009 - 7:02am

Well, onward ho with the graffiti incident: DH confronted SD9 yesterday and eventually made her cough up that she wrote "I hate SM" on the window. He was feeling pretty good about himself, I guess (on a roll?) and decided to tell BM, who was response was: laughter. Nice. So then SD9 spoke with her, and they were both laughing. This is really the crux of the issue here, that b****h of a BM is such a sorry excuse for a human being, how can we hope to raise SD9 to be something better?

Glad I found this site...(long)

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Submitted by heidimutter on Sun, 10/25/2009 - 7:55am

Mostly because I've been dealing with being a SM for the past six years, and shouldering most of the burden myself; thanks for having a place to vent and get support. I have SS13, SD9, and my two daughters 5 & 3. It has been a rocky road, mostly because of bipolar, unmedicated, codependent, and incompetent BM (oh yes, who is also a nymphomaniac with a victim complex), and who occasionally happens to be funny, together, and intelligent (although, not consistently enough to make her a good parent).