It would a super long blog post to track back and give you any type of a synopsis from the past few years, so I will start with recent events and make different posts of “incidents” that have been caused by the BM, BM’s family, BM’s 4th husband.

This past Thursday, 6/2/11, SD12 called wanting to come over. This has actually happened every night this week since BM came to get her from where we were eating dinner at on Monday. SD12 did not want to go to BMs then but BM threatened with police, etc & we didn’t want to take a chance of SD12 having to deal with all of that. So anyhow DH told SD12 that he would be more than happy to pick her up but she needed to call BM and advise her. Well BM says no, of course, and advises SD12 that the next day the GAL is coming to speak to her and her brother and all of this bad stuff going on is DH’s fault. Typical. DH advises SD12 that he did file for custody of her and SS15. The reason he did this is because he doesn’t feel like BM is making good choices right now when it comes to her and SS15. DH advised SD12 that he allowed BM to handle SS15’s discipline issues, etc. and he now has a pending under age consumption charge, regularly smokes weed, and nobody ever knows where he is at. It’s not right and not safe and DH advised SD12 that he wants to make sure that her and SS15 have a stable home, etc. DH also advised SD12 that her step-dad (4th husband) went to jail Wed. morning. SD12 stated no he didn’t BM said he was out of town. DH advised SD12 that BM lied to her, we have proof & that BM has lied to her about other things as well. The conversation progressed off of that topic and he ended the call letting her know we will pick her up tomorrow.

About 4 minutes later, guess who calls…BM! She is more pissed than a wet hornet! She denies that 4th husband was in jail…lol! It was public record that is posted online by the local sherriff’s department!!!! Picture and all! DH just laughed that off and told her to believe what she wanted. BM told DH that she is going to have him thrown in jail for back child support, lol, whatever! The funds are now garnished from DH’s paycheck…when BM went to court to have that done she did not claim any back CS. When everyone got along, there was a mutual agreement between DH & BM that in lieu of CS that any fee, dues, costs, etc that came up for SD & SS that we would pay for and we did. Anyhow she also told DH that is SD12 is not back Friday by 9pm (going strictly by the parenting agreement from their divorce back in 1999) that she would call the police and report SD12 kidnapped. Really lady! SD12 isn’t kidnapped…you know who she is with and where she is at, stupid #$%#$! So DH just laughed her off. He was sooo cool during the entire conversation and it PISSED her off even more. BM advised that she took SD12’s cell phone from her. DH advised she needs it back. We bought the phone and we pay for her cell bill. BM refused. At that time DH tells me to call the police and report the phone stolen.

BM ends up hanging up on DH, lol. About 5 minutes after that call had ended, 4th husband calls!!!!! OMG!!!! He is yelling at DH and DH yells back. DH tells 4th husband that he is a murder and needs to crawl back under the rock he came from. (4th husband has vehicular homicide on his record because he killed a 15 yr old kid in a car accident that was his fault due to he was high. He served time in a federal prison. Can you believe that 4th husband tried to deny this??? DH advised 4th husband we did a background check, we know!) The yelling ensued and then 4th husband advised DH , and I quote,” you’ll be real sorry” and “you’ve made your bed now your going to have to lie in it”. We called and reported this to the police. We also had a welfare check done on SD12 since BM & 4th husband were so irate.

We found out that 4th husband has called and threatened 3rd husband (he is the father of BMs 3rd child). Luckily 3rd husband has it on voice mail!!!! 3rd husband has filed for custody as well, woohooo!

Sorry if this is all over the place, there is so much at play here it’s hard to get it all out and for it to sound right!

More to come later…i'll tell yall about the text's she sent me! Man was I ready to throw down!!!! }:)