My first blog, i have never asked for help before, so here goes.

Me and my partner have 3 children, our son is 6 and I have 2 step children a young woman of 17 and a young man of 15.

For the past 2 years I have lost respect from both of the step children wlhen I ask for something to be done the 17 year old has no problem but the 15 year old cant be asked when asked to do simple chores ie when finishing a meal or snack and using a plate, cup etc wash up and put away, it never gets done, as all he wants to do is stay in his bedroom playing on his ps4.