My first blog, i have never asked for help before, so here goes.

Me and my partner have 3 children, our son is 6 and I have 2 step children a young woman of 17 and a young man of 15.

For the past 2 years I have lost respect from both of the step children wlhen I ask for something to be done the 17 year old has no problem but the 15 year old cant be asked when asked to do simple chores ie when finishing a meal or snack and using a plate, cup etc wash up and put away, it never gets done, as all he wants to do is stay in his bedroom playing on his ps4.

They both swear constantly and the 15 year old belches as loud as he can during dinner, I ask him to stop it as my 6 year old copys him but he will do it again the next meal and my partner very rarely says anything and its getting me more concerned as now it has started to rub off on our 6 year old.

This might all seem meaningless or usual to some people but the disrespect has gone on for too long with little help from my partner.

This is only a short of what happens, there are more examples of disrespect but I wanted to start simplistic.