Its amazing to me but we cant get by this problem known as SD. Therapy sessions (for everyone), and anything else you can think of we tried...this kid has problems...and my wife facilitates them. The last straw was two days ago when I caught SD lying to her BD on the phone about her mother. I waited until she got off the phone and said "Why do you lie to your dad about your mom?" Her deer in the headlight response..."What?" I said I heard you lie to your dad and I want to know why you think its necessary to say these things about your mother that arent true.

I know most of you post to get some responses and different view points from people but this is not one of those posts. I truly just need to vent because my anger is so great right now that anythign that would be said won't even be heard so please bear with me and accept my apology ahead of time but I truly am at the point that I fucking HATE my SD AND the way her mom treats her above all of the other kids. I swear to you if Jesus came down from the cross and wanted to save my wife and her entire family from damnation she would put him on hold if this child needed a spoon to eat.

The battle at home has become intensely heated due to SD and my wifes ways. A little background, wife and I have 2 boys and 2 girls together plus SD. Since day one, I've been open and honest with wife about what I needed in our relationship regarding how to go about raising a family. Above all else I needed honesty. I needed her to know where I stood on children, step or bio, and how it was WE who would decided on how they are raised. I made it clear that this family, which included SD, was what I wanted most in life.

This is a continuation from a post I had a couple of weeks ago about me buying a new home for my family and giving my SD the small bedroom because she did not deserve the big bedroom, that MY daughter got. Anyway my wife approached me last night and said she really wanted to talk to me about this and I said what is there to talk about. She said she understood that SD has been doing everything wrong and especially about the lying in court and how I should be upset with her but that she feels she is at fault for raising her this way to which I said..."It is both you and her fathers fault".