i have a stepson who has been lieing for 25 years about things about me and my husband has believed him always and i get the blunt of the hurt by my husband believing in what i am trying to say, i left because of this and went into a safehouse because i could not handle all the yelling and blambing that i was the one destroying our marriage, for years i just fell victim of my stepchild and let him control everything so we could keep our marriage. i was told that if i didnt "let it go" that our marriage would be done and i have other kids by him.