i have a stepson who has been lieing for 25 years about things about me and my husband has believed him always and i get the blunt of the hurt by my husband believing in what i am trying to say, i left because of this and went into a safehouse because i could not handle all the yelling and blambing that i was the one destroying our marriage, for years i just fell victim of my stepchild and let him control everything so we could keep our marriage. i was told that if i didnt "let it go" that our marriage would be done and i have other kids by him. so i didnt want to destroy them by splitting up. i always gave in and i am the one who suffered by all the hate by his family members thinking i am so horrible of a stepmother. i did go back and now our church made him a righeous man and all he does is be a church guy and everyone in our church loves him and he destroyed friends i had in our church. by malipating that i made things up and he has always been so good. i am humble and want to keep our family together but i am so alone. what can i do to get people to listen to my side? he has took over everyone.