So… the last post was about how my BF son was going to start soccer… SO I ended up going to his practice and I actually had a really good time. I enjoyed speeding time with my BF and his son. BM was there and she was polite and gave me a hug hi? She was there with her fiance/ husband? not sure what they are? as well as her family. That was a little awkward, because it was just me and my BF. The only thing I noticed was that my BF son was not into the game at all. HE wasn't trying to play well, he wasn't even running? The other kids were leaving him behind and he looked miserable!

My boyfriend lives about 20 min. outside of the larger town I live in. Yesterday he had his son with him and his BM tells him that the kid is going to a sleep over in another little town about 45 min from where he lives. So my boyfriend takes his son to the sleep over and dives all the way back home. I thought oh its okay, his bM or someone else will prob. pick him up. NOPE, stupid bM makes him pick him up this morning! SO I asked him well is she working? and he said idk? probably not? I am so annoyed because he is like afraid of her! he won't tell her anything!

So this weekend I finally put my foot down on my boyfriends 8 year old son sleeping in the bed with us. He wanted to you know….. and I told him" is he afraid of sleeping in his room? and he said no… I told him well can he sleep in his own room? and he said yes and said he would see if he could take him to his BM. So I guess we both grew some balls this weekend. I also gave him an ultimatum on his jealousy and promised him I would leave if he doesn't show me change. Last, I stopped and will stop dropping hints on the engagement issue.
Great weekend.
Proud of myself.