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Thank you Step Talk.

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:O Thank you Step Talk for the help you have given me in the rough times I had. Unfortunately I was not able to overcome my husbands issues and heartaches. I filed for a divorce August 1, 2013. After finding out this man cheated on me just to be with his ex sister in law, and never stopped lieing to me... I do miss the children a lot, but I no longer have mamma drama and I no longer am living lies. Thank you again....

What I can no longer comprehend....

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What I can no longer comprehend is the hypocritical bull shit BM is pulling now... SS16 has been in counseling because medication made him suicidal, great... He should have been in counseling a long time ago... but how dare you as a BM dictate what is discussed in HIS counseling sessions, how dare you go into that counselors office WITHOUT SS16... How dare you tell this child he has a voice, only when you say so. How dare you not allow this child to see his father, unless the counselor says it is okay.

Been sitting here thinking... I have never written BM A letter....

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Dear BM....

The time has come for you to grow up. Stand on your own two feet. Not rely on others to carry your weight. You WERE married to my DH, you no longer are. You chose to listen to the lies and manipulation of your ignorant sisters in reference to my DH. You are the one that Cheated on HIM. You are the one that is making excuses to your children as to how you and your no Husband got together. You decided after, and only after my DH and I got married to cause more and more issues.

Something ALL Parents (Step or not) She take heed to

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"I WAS RAISED!! I DIDN'T JUST GROW UP. I WAS TAUGHT TO SPEAK WHEN I ENTERED A ROOM, SAY PLEASE AND THANK YOU, TO HAVE RESPECT FOR MY ELDERS, TO GET UP OFF MY LAZY BUTT AND LET AN ELDER IN THE ROOM HAVE MY CHAIR, SAY YES SIR, NO SIR, LEND A HELPING HAND TO THOSE IN NEED, HOLD THE DOOR FOR THE PERSON BEHIND ME, SAY EXCUSE ME WHEN IT'S NEEDED, AND TO LOVE PEOPLE FOR WHO THEY ARE, NOT FOR WHAT I CAN GET FROM THEM! I WAS ALSO TAUGHT TO TREAT PEOPLE THE WAY I WANT TO BE TREATED."

I am so sick and TIRED of her BS... (Sorry, I need to VENT)

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Every time something does not go BM way, she turns it on to me and DH. NEVER ONCE does DH get a phone call about SS7 going to the ER because he needs stitches... Never once does he get a phone call because SS15 sprains his knee... instead, this is what we get....

BBM
so SS7 got beat up by a wall thanks to his brother. Spent two hrs in er and he got two stiches in the back of his head... Nurses thought he was the best he didnt even whine
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NB Oh no!
12 hours ago

WOW... Where to begin.... (AGAIN)

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So, we had the children this weekend. And I have to say, I am quite proud of myself. I laid down the law with out saying a word... When It was time to talk, the conversations were direct answers and nothing more.... I made dinner, no the children were not asked what they wanted. They were told to come get their plates and eat dinner...

HELP!!!!! I have tried.....

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I have tried to disengage.... I have tried to put everything back on BD. I have told him to his face. I have walked away, I have ignored the situations, I have not done anything for the SKids, but now it starts all over again. I AM "NOT ALLOWED" to walk away. He has no clue how to be a parent. But I get told that because I have non of my own I do not know how to be a parent... I CAN NOT HANDLE ANYMORE!!!!! I am sick and tired of my life being taken over at the expense of every one else. And I am SO DAMN Tired of hearing "They are just children, you can not blame then"...

Example....

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This is some of the Antics I deal with. This is the BM and her "FRIEND" Conversing on FACE BOOK... (They are clueless that I can access it)....

BIO BITCH
so funny that someone refuses to be a father to his kids and only sees them when forced will yell at his daughter for the color lipstick she wears.. Really so pathetic that u try to act like her dad just to make your mom and wife happy.
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(SD13 had FMR Lipstick and Racoon Eyes)

NOSY BITCH
What the hell! NO! What a loser!
Sunday at 6:12pm

Is this year over yet?

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I am so ready to have this year come to an end. It has been a horrible year for me and my family. In June I lost my mother... a few weeks after that my Aunts Mother-In-Law passed away... September I have MAJOR back surgery done, Thanksgiving... My Brother-in-Law (who is 41) had a heart attack... (he had a stint put in and now has pneumonia, and is malnourished.... but slowly recovering) and now I found out last night that On Saturday, my sister (who is 39) had a heart attack... She has had Lupus since she was in her early 20's, and she has scar tissue or something on her lungs...

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