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dolphingirl's picture

I get so mad at my stepson as he doesn't listen and only hears what he wants to. Typical 14 year old right? But I have to stress to him over and over what I mean. How do you control your tone? I don't want my 15month old to hear that and be scared of his mommy cuz she yells at his brother, and dad is getting stressed cuz we cant get a long.

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dolphingirl's picture

I guess "yell" was a bad word. I should have said raised my voice. But I get what you mean. Thanks. I will try anything to get this to stop. It has just gotten way out of hand.

Willow2010's picture

How do you keep it all under control? How do you keep everything calm and cool?
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Easy peasy. I don't really have anything to do with SS. If he is in trouble, DH takes care of it. Let me re phrase that...DH thinks he takes care of it.

clairedelune's picture

When I had to talk to SD, I raised my voice just a little and took a very serious "I want to kill you" tone. Seems to have worked. I was so mad after that my whole body was shaking!