Had the most crappy evening with BM texting all sorts of made up lies to my other half about me. She was saying that the kids go back to her crying after they have been with me or us. What a load of bull. He even asked his daughter and she said she has never gone home crying and that she loves coming and being with us and that she loves me.

I am working on staying calm in these situations and not taking everything to heart or else I will end up a complete mess. Last night I had to work VERY hard at it. In the past my partner has never defended me as strongly as I would have wanted and I recently raised this with him. Well I was in shock last night at how determined he was to defend me and tell her that all her made up crap will not make any difference to our happy family life. A few texts went back and forth and then my partner text saying enough, I have said what I wanted, the children love coming to us and spending time with us and have no problems with me. He told her that was the end of it he was not texting anymore and that when she have any serious concerns he would talk to her but only if they were serious and not all this made up crap.

Well I think I have just about picked myself up off the floor from the shock of it. Well done to him for finally standing up to her and ending some of the crap that she tries to get away with.......there is hope yet!!!:jawdrop: