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I hate that the Ex-wife EXISTS!!

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Submitted by decofru on Tue, 07/24/2018 - 3:01am

You wont really know all the boring parts about being a step mom or step wife until you are facing it bit by bit. So yesterday i passed by DH's work place and i find him with an old friend of his. He introduces me to him and says "meet my wife", and the guy looks at me unconvinced and is like "i know your wife and that's not her" he thought DH was kidding. It sucks that for 10 years DH has been known as some one else's husband and im just the "new" wife that not everyone in his life has heard of. I hate the fact that there is an Ex wife and New wife!!!!

BM ruined my weekend

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Submitted by decofru on Mon, 07/23/2018 - 5:46am

BM usually picks up SS friday evening and he comes back monday afternoon. I look forward friday every week because i know SS will be out of my sight and i can have DH's undivided attention and we can have some quality time together. Im only off on weekends, same with DH so weekends are the only time we have to spend together. Friday evening no word from BM and then i thought maybe she will take him tomorow then she calls and says she is unable to take SS this weekend, i wanted to cry. That means BM is controlling my weekend plans, its all up to her.

WAS I WRONG TO BANN BM FROM STEPPING FOOT ON MY DOORSTEP?

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Submitted by decofru on Fri, 07/20/2018 - 3:04am

I banned my step son's mom from coming to my house, why should she? to see what TV we have now or if we have changed our couch? she should not satisfy her curiosity by coming to my house. At times she would knock on the door while we were having sex, imagine my anger when i realised we were disrupted by her!! next thing she came to see my MIL and stayed for over 20 mins, then she came again to see MIL and stayed another 30mins and i said that's it!!!

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