Anyone out there tired of being not second, third or fourth thought - always last? We have been married since last summer and we have been working on putting us first and it doesn't seem to work. My job is very demanding, we have a large family and our weekends without too much running is always such a welcomed relief and blessing for us. We can hardly connect during the week and every other weekend with only the older kids who are independent in the home is a great relief. I have to admit also these weekends without SDx2 is a luxury.