Well before Christmas BM got mad and said she changed SS1 bedtime to 8 instead of the normal 9 which would shorten our time an hour. Convieniently she changed it back after Christmas to 9. However when he is w/ us he is ready for bed at 8, sleeps the entire time hes here and as of recently hes been sticking his toy farmer up his shirt...hmm... I also know that BM has a new bf and SS sleeps in the same bed w/ her so it has me wondering what he is seeing. Also hes been saying 'cock' when he comes over. This just started right after she got the new BF.