However, we're still living under the same roof until I find a place for my teens & I. He's living in the basement and I upstairs. Just when you think things are getting better, something always happens and I'm fed up! He believes its ok for his 21 year old daughter and 1 1/2 yr old granddaughter can continue to live with us for free. Free food, cable, hot water, electricity and laundry, and she doesn't do any chores, including cleaning her room, which should be aired on the world's dirtest bedroom. Yes, she works, but all she does with her money is shop, get her hair/nails done, and I assume pay the sitter. He just doesn't get that he's not helping her, but enabling her. I told him that she doesn't have any respect for you, me or your house, because if she did, she would clean up, do chores and try to help out financially. He thinks that I'm crazy and that I don't like her. No, I don't like the fact that here I am your wife, and I can't even live here for free, as I pay all of the utilties, cable and groceries, whereas my husband pays the mortgage, taxes, ins., etc. So question, wouldn't you be upset about this too? So tonight, I'm having a talk with him, and until I'm able to move, I have made up my mind, that I am since I'm saving money to move, that I will no longer be responsible for utilities and food for the everyone, but I will give you $300/month and buy only food for my kids and I, as well as cook for my kids and I. Or should I come up with something else? I truly need help addressing this issue. Any feedback would be most appreciate.