It's just so back and forth. One day SO is ready to get help for SS from the SSs grandmother. The next day she thinks she can just do it on her own. Either way, nothing I say or do matters. I'm back to feeling just exhausted by it all today. I started getting mental health services just a little over a decade ago, and my SO just feels like everything I say is just criticizing her, or being a know it all and it's like... I mean I know a thing or two.... I say nothing, nothing changes, and I say something, nothing changes. Which... fine, but then stop crying to me about it.