Unfortunately, things in my life have not gotten better. My stepson is just a time bomb waiting to go off he is looking at toddlers, and men. He is also fiddle faddling himself in public. My husband has now started saying that it isn't as bad as we have been saying and that a lot of it is in my head. His mother has also pulled him from therapy. And as I have said, I have no power to help him. I have called DCFS what he is doing, and they said they can do nothing unless he offends. Our therapist says it is time to plan to get out.

So my stepson was here for a long weekend and again he was checking out my breasts, while his Dad was standing right next to him. I told him to turn to his Father and tell him what he was doing. He turned to his Dad and admitted what he was doing. We then questioned him as to why he was doing this, and he stated, "because I want to." I then asked him if he had been looking at his mother like this, and he said that he had. My husband that asked him why he was doing that, and he stated that, "he wanted to know what they look like." He was then looking at me lustfully for the next hour.

So we took my stepson to DCFS and of course they found nothing as I had thought. Although the nurse their said that 85% of the time they don't find any signs of sexual abuse, and that often times the kids won't talk about the abuse for months or even years. And like we thought, my SS f'd up mother came unglued that we had taken him in before notifying the her. She thought that we should have taken him to the family doctor first. What a complete B! She also wrote a Freudian slip in her as always well crafted emails saying, "you should have written me to get my side of the story".

I just don't know where to turn. My stepson was recently molested by a family member. We are going through the DCFS process of getting him evaluated. His mother is a complete demon. DCFS said the likelihood of finding it out is low. Anyway, he won't be taken away from her, and she will start suing my husband again. Since this has happened my SS has become very devious, lying about everything, acting like an adult and etc. He has also shown a drastic increase in his attentions towards my toddler. Two therapist said that he must never be left alone with my son, for even a second.