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Wife is Blind

So wife's ex was working in Arizona which is 5 hrs from where we live. He works the weeks there and comes back on the weekends to his house here. He was working 4 10s which was nice because he got SD's 13 and 14 on friday nights at 8pm and they didnt get dropped off until Monday. Now he took and job for the same company in Las Vegas which is 2.5 hrs from here and its a 5 day a week job. So now they girls come back on Sundays. My wife and I got into a argument because I said he work take that job because now he doesnt have to play dad 3 days only 1 and a quarter days.

Unconditional Love

So my wife and I got into a big argument over my SD's 12 and 14. SD 14 is rude and clearly doesnt care for the man I am because Im not her real dad. I understand the whole going through teen years but the way she is acting towards me is not the cause of that. My wife doesnt want me to correct the girls and just let her do the parenting on them but we also have a son together he is 4. So I tend to put all of my focus on my son and give him all of me. This is where the fights start. I told my wife i am puting all my energy into my son because there is uncondional love between him and I.

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Not sure what to do

So my mother came into town over the weekend to visit. She wanted to celebrate our bio sons belated birth day cause she lives out of town and could not be here. My wife is convenced my mom doesnt like her an isnt the case. Our 2 SD's 12-13 feed off of mom and don't pay any mind to my Mother. My mom makes a effort to bring gifts and stuff for the girls so they don't feel left out but it still feels like a battle. My mom left yesterday and now my wife is all pissed at me saying i put my mother on a pedestal nd don't show any attention to our SD's.

Am I out of Line?

This Monday my wife and I are taking SD 12 to our county science fair which is 2.4hrs away. We have to leave at 430am. I and my wife took the day off work. I was just told by my wife that our SD's dad is in town on Monday which he works out of town. SD 13 will be with him and he will take her to school that day and they wont be attending the science fair. But, she said that she set it up to drop our my 3 year old son together at his out at 4 in the morning and he would drop our son off at pre school. I said hell no and blew a fuse. Now I am staying home and taking care of my son.

Nothing left

I believe Im at the end of My rope. I have no drive for anything. I feel the Skids and their mother have pushed me from being a happy driven person to a i dont give a crap zombie. I understand when theres kids involved you have to not be a selfish person and do whats right for the kids. But, when they show no intrest in me and what i try to provide to them It runs a person down. At this point i feel like im getting used because i provide very well for them. I get mad to feel like crap when i show my 2 year old son attention and love.

Blowout!!

Friday night SD's dad picked them up from school like he does. I planned a nice evening with my lady looking forward to a no arguing and fighting weekend. Around 4 I was told the girls we going to be dropped off because their dad had something planned for the evening and they would be picked up tomorrow around noon. I blew a fuse. I said hell no. Their mom and I get it done durning the week and get it done having them with us.

No Disipline

My girlfriend and I have been together for about 5 years. She has 2 girls 11 and 12 from a previous marriage. We have been living together for 4 years. WE have a 2 year old son together. My problem is that she will not back me when i try to correct her girls. Like last night our son was grumpy and her 11 year old was grumpy too and making faces and getting him all fired up. I said hey knock it off,and right away she jumped me and said dont be talking to her that way and pretty much just walked all over me.

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