I am new here, and have been struggling with my duties as a step mom for 7 years now, and just didn't know where to turn when I stumbled across this site. I will try to be quick with a short bio of myself first...I am a 35 yr old Mom with a beautiful 15 yr old daughter and a beautiful 2 yr old daughter. I also have 2 step children who live with me. They are a 14 yr old step son, and a 16 yr old step daughter. Their bm has not been in their lives for over 2 yrs now. She is constantly moving and changing phone numbers, and changing men constantly!!