In one of my blogs about 2 weeks ago,I told about how my SD11 did not get to go to a football game at school, so later that weekend I discovered she had wrote on a brand new pair of jeans graffiti-style,why? She said she did it out of "boredom", I knew it was because she did not get to go to game, she was reprimanded and punished. I threw the pants away in the city receptacle. Yesterday, I see she is wearing the jeans and asked how and why she retrieved them from the garbage, she denied doing it.

Well, SD11 asks father if she can go to Jr. high football game on Friday night, the game was Saturday morning. He says no he has to work. She ask can she walk to school and go by herself. WTF, are you kidding me, child thinks she's grown. Anyway,the game started a 8 AM and there was no one else willing to take her. Since I have disengaged I did not offer. Sad thing, I would have enjoyed going, but why should I change so she can get what she wants. Maybe she will start thinking now!!!!

So, I have disengaged from SD11,which means I'm not going to say or do anything about it, but this morning she gets up and opens bedroom door (her room is across the landing from ours) and out comes the smell of piss, not the I just pissed my bed last night smell of piss, but 2 days worth that has dried and been done again. Before anything is said about an 11 yr old still wetting the bed, she has been seen by a doctor and it is simple she cannot wake herself up in time to go and yes, we have done it all, punishment, treatments, helping and incentives.