I found this site and am turning to other fellow step parents for advice. I don't know what to do with my MIL situation. I am to the point that I no longer want to take my daughter, who is 8, up to my In Laws for visits. My husband has two boys from a previous marriage (5 and 11), and I have a daughter from a previous marriage (8). My husband is very good at treating my daughter like she is his, and I do my best to also treat his boys like they are my own, when they are in our company.