It was brought up on another site that I'm a member of that "the same guys that picked us, also picked them once". Wow. Does that sentence not speak volumes? Really, when you get right down to it, the same man that loves "us" (sm's) also once, in alot of cases, loves them (bm's). So the same man, with the same values, the same preferences, the same pretty much everything chose two totally different people? Wonder why that is? Or do we have more in common with BM than we care to admit?