As part of detaching myself from H, putting the short history into words is one of my "chores". And actually, posting on here, password protected and all, seeing you all's responses to the behaviour I sometimes fail to recognize as strange, is theraputic.

I'm so glad to be back on here! H finally left-it was Thur, Fri, Sat., Sun & today from Hell. That's how long he was here. It was horrible. I posted about him critizing everything I did this weekend-and throwing the trash on the floor-well, I can only tell you it got worse.

I'll preface this by saying my husband is uncommonly generous. He always overtips the waitress, he's handed a little kid in line in the store money to buy something when the parent(s) ran short.

It was actually one of the things I admired about him when we were dating. And that, of course, was before I saw the true dynamics of his relationship with SD17, and his seeming "fascination" with her. Don't remember whose blog the fascination came from-but very good description.

Yet another migraine today, and they are coming more and more frequently. And I know what the cause is; the constant tension. Even when H is away at work, the tension is there because of him calling 15 times a day.