Well, SD, 13, is all upset because BM was looking through her text messages and facebook post. SD uses BM's phone because she can not be trusted with her own phone. Long story short, About 2 years ago, SD sent naked pictures of herself to a 50 year old guy. If she were my child, she would have never had access to a phone or computer until she was out of my house for her own safety but unfortunately, she has TWO brain dead parents.