BM moved into a 3 bedroom apartment a few weeks ago and now has the room for all 3 of her children, who by the way all have different fathers. She is not working and finally got custody of her other two children from their fathers. H has had full physical custody of SD for 7 years now. BM took H to court last year for custody of child but the judge said no the child has been with the father for 7 years now and she is disabled so i will not grant for her to be moved to you unless you can prove the father is unfit....

H works the 3rd shift, I work the 1st so we wont need daycare. To make a long story short back in July... I had a big blow out with BM. I told H i wanted nothing to do with her nor will I have anything to do with her, dont involve me with nothing and i haven't in the past 6 months. BM calls my house knowing H is at work no lie 16 times in a matter of 10 minutes... Not sure what made her think i would answer at all if i didn't answer the first time.

Why is it every time I am the one who does all the work to help their child get what she needs and they get all the credit for something they didn't do.

I emailed my SD's school director today to inform her that my sd's doctor wants her to be placed in behavioral therapy for her behavior issues,(SD has austism) and the directors response was Before I go into depth about what the school district is responsible for, I probably should ask if you have any legal custody with the child. Even though you are probably her primary caretaker, if you do not have any legal rights, technically I should not be discussing the child's program with you. I don't want my communication with you to cause future problems for you and your family.