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baybee9404's picture

Submitted by baybee9404 on Mon, 05/11/2009 - 2:43pm

SD's school send home a note addressed to H and his ex girlfriend regarding a situation that happened with SD in special education. H asked the school not to send letters to our home addressed to the both of them, that she doesn't not live here and he is SD's custodial parent. Schools says well unless you have proof of the court prohibiting it all letters will be addressed to both parents...
What im afraid of is that Sd's mother can use that against H in court saying she takes care all of SD's schooling when actually I do... and use the letters addressed to both of them as proof she was involved when she wasn't.

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Tara12's picture

Submitted by Tara12 on Mon, 05/11/2009 - 8:44pm

and you talked to someone that was just being a PITA. I would call and ask to speak to someone else. My FH and BM have not been together since before SD16 was even born and letters go to BOTH parents and addressed to each of them seperately. In this day and age to have a school tell you something like that is ridiculous.

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Submitted by melis070179 on Mon, 05/11/2009 - 9:28pm

Sounds like crap to me! They should be sending letters to both parents at theor own addresses. If she doesn't live there, thats not getting the info to both parents. Thats not fair to the parent that the letter isn't going to.

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Submitted by belleboudeuse on Tue, 05/12/2009 - 3:20pm

A lawyer could call the school about this, saying there are legal issues with sending information to a parent who doesn't live at that residence. There could be liability issues for the school, too, that they aren't telling both parents about things. (I would suggest that to them even if you don't have a lawyer.)

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