Hi, im new to this whole thing. But I dont have anyone to really talk to about the issues and feelings I have been having. I have been take care of my fiances almost 4 year old in april since she been 6months old. Her bio mom really don't have much to do with her. My sd don't know her as mom. Knows me as mom. I try setting up visits with her sometimes she will come. Other times she will say oh i cant or not even ask about them. She has given my step daughter scabies 3x. We have sole custody of her. Shs has visitions suprived.