asia's Blog

update.....

Hi everyone!!! its been awhile since i been on here..i must say things got better for me and my bf...we are engaged and im expecting my first child..... my ss is 5 years old now... i dont know if anyone is having this problem but... he seems to not understand he is having a lil sister soon... and most kids at this age would understand what cousins,sister, and brother ect.is.... my ss cousin that is only 3 year old knows what that is, unlike him....it just puzzle me...

just venting....

Hi everyone!!! i have a question. why is it everytime bf have some type of issue with bm he always takes it out on my.. or start acting rude towards me... he is a good man to me. but when he starts acting stupid.. i know he probably has just talked to her or their has been something wrong.like her calling asking for money or something stupid. for example.. yesterday she text him telling him that its about time that ss doesnt need the car seat anymore... who doesnt know that..??? anyways...bf wants nothing to do with her... everytime ss is with us we take good care of him...

potty traning.......

HI EVERYONE! ITS BEEN AWHILE SINCE I BEEN ON HERE... WELL MY STEPSON IS 3 AND STILL ON POTTY TRAIN. I GOT HIM A POTTY SEAT. AND HE WAS DOING SO WELL. BUT THEN WHEN HE GOES BACK TO HIS MOTHER AND THE NEXT WEEKEND WE HAVE HIM. I HAVE TO START ALL OVER WITH HIM AGAIN. I DONT UNDERSTAND WHY, IT GETS ME SO UPSET. AND TRUST ME I'M A VERY PATIENCE PERSON.HE IS SUCH A SMART BOY TOO,AND I WANT HIM TO GET IT TOGETHER CAUSE HE GONNA START SCHOOL AND ALL. AND THE DAYCARE HE IS GOING TO IS NOT EVEN A DAYCARE. BECAUSE NO OTHER DAYCARE WOULD EXCEPT HIM CAUSE HE NOT POTTY TRAIN.

does he care?????

Did anyone ever get the feeling that... when you and bf have a child that he wont love your child the same way as he love his first child? cause sometimes my bf make me feel like that... i dont know if he even realize that... everytime when he talks about his son he makes comments as .... "if i hit a milion dollar i would split it to my family and my son,by the age of 18 he will be set".. and i'm sitting there thinking to myself"wtf" lol.... what if i had a child with him.. would he even care that much...ugh..

just venting.......

i have to say kids say the darnest thing!! my ss is 3yr. we were in the store shopping and the bm called to talk to him like she usally does when we have him. anyways i guess she ask him what he is doing and if he ate..... and he said yes asia cook..i'm with asia walking we going shopping... then he said i dont want to talk to you i'm going shopping with asia... so i know the bm felt some type of way... then she call my husband thinking accusing someone telling him to say that to her... but noone did// he was on the phone with her himself...

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