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Enough is FINALLY enough.

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Submitted by ashkins1985 on Mon, 07/14/2014 - 8:10am

So after everything that's happened, how horrible I have been treated, even though I only ever tried to be kind, compassionate and understanding, my husband invited his 17 year old daughter to MY PARENTS house on my father's birthday. I've told my husband over and over that I can't take how I get treated by three of his daughters. It's like I don't even existed. I say hello to them and they literally turn around and walk away. My only defense has been to distance myself from them. I'm so tired of feel unwanted and unwelcome in my own home or with my own family.

Tuning it Out

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Submitted by ashkins1985 on Thu, 07/03/2014 - 12:52pm

So I'm afraid. And when I get afraid like this, it's a very lonely feeling. My husband of 4 years has five children from his previous marriage, and like most of you I'm sure, they absolutely hate me. They lived with us for the first five years of our relationship, and (all but one) moved in with their mother a year ago this month. They won't visit, period. Not at all. Because I'm here. They won't call my husband, their father, because he's married to me. The one and only time they've been over since they moved out, it was like I was nonexistent.