Quick history: I moved 2 hours away from BD10 when I was married to my previous husband who is the father of BS7. I also have BD10 whos father I never married. The move couldn't really be helped, as my ex was out of a job for months and the only reasonable offer he had received was 2 hours away. We divorced within the next year after moving due to his infidelities and the fact that our marriage had started its downward spiral shortly after we moved. DH and I met right about this time through a group of people that we mutually hung out with.

In the beginning, I tried and tried to reason with BM in hopes to have an understanding to be on the same page for SD16. She is unreasonable, vindictive, canniving, manipulative and thinks she's never wrong. Because of this, I can't even think about the woman without wanting to kidney punch the bitch. I do not try to talk to her anymore or even want to see her.

So SD16 is canniving and manipulative and lies. Basically, she is just like her Bio-mom. In the last 6 years that DH and I have been together, we have had our ups and downs but I have never felt like her and I have really clicked. One minute she loves me and the next she is telling DH that I am mean and that I throw stuff at her. DH has sided with me on things in the past but it is becoming increasingly hard to talk to him about these problems because he doesn't want to deal with it. He has gone as far as telling me that I just need to figure it out and make up with her. This is not right.