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Waiting for the sh*t storm to start
Well, DH FINALLY got his child tax benefits paid to him! $5000 for payments owed to him since 2013. BM was illegally collecting the payments when DH had custody. Now DH has custody of one and BM has custody of the other. She was still collecting for both. DH sent in the court order and other paper work and just got the cheque in the mail! Ha! Bm's going to lose her sh*t when she finds out. I'm 99% sure that they'll garnish her child taxes for the one kid she has right now until the amount is paid back to them. Now to sit and wait for the drama to start... Sigh.
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Picking and choosing
For the most part, I would consider myself mostly disengaged. The only 2 things I engage myself with are things that do/will affect my life: SS's chores and when SS has homework due. I chose to be involved with those because I am not the household maid and I want SS to finish school when he turns 19 (he failed grade 1 while living with BM).
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My Christmas :)
This year, we're celebrating Christmas on the 27 at a cabin in the mountains!!! I can't wait. It has a hottub on the deck that overlooks the beautiful mountains. It's going to be me, DH, young SS14, my dad and fur babies. Ss16 threw DH under the bus back in August and moved back in with BM and hasn't spoken to DH since. Except once when dh's mom passed away and once when he needed a ride somewhere. Needless to say, he's not invited and I don't want to see him. I am so excited for this!!! Ss14 has never been in a cabin before, which is crazy cause we rent one at LEAST twice a year.
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My DH is a miserable F*#k
VENT!!!! My "D"H is just a miserable person. Ever since his whole court battle, four years ago, he's turned into a pitiful person to be around. He goes sometime without having a meltdown but when he hits the smallest bump in life, look out!!! The entire f*%#ing world is ending!!!! It's both pathetic and embarrassing to watch a grown, 6'4" man throw a tantrum like a 6 year old. I don't understand it. Everyone has their share of stress. He thinks that his stress is the worst in the world and that the world is out to get him. Everything is everyone's fault but his.
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Vent!
Lately, SS14 has been having an attitude. He's generally a good kid, doesn't really talk back, but lately he's been getting worse. He's not technically an only child, but has been living like an only child for the last 3 months or so. He's spoiled and DH is to blame for that. He had $50 in his wallet when he went to visit BM. The wallet went "missing" and magically appeared two weeks later with no money in it. It doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure out what happened to the money. Anyways, DH gave him $50 to replace it (stupid I know).
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SPOILED!!!!
I've been home for lunch for not even 20 minutes. SS13 says "I'm bored. My xbox is crap, all my games are scratched. I need to get new modern warfare, new grand theft auto and new roblox. I can't even play my guitar cause it's not tuned. I need an acoustic guitar, not a classical one". Really?!? If I complained about something when I was little, my parents would take it away. They said I didn't deserve it and when my attitude changed, I would get it back. Ever since SS16 moved back with BM, DH has SPOILED SS13 beyond belief. Just buys him $40 silkscreen posters for his room for no reason.
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The little things
I've finally found a reason to like my SS's!!! They keep chocolate hidden in their rooms... }:) If they find them missing, I kept the wrappers to put on my dogs bed... Those furry little devils 
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Bwhahaha!!! Disengagement at it's finest!
Something that has been an issue between my DH and I is the fact that SS13 wakes up at 5:45AM to shower and then goes back to bed until 7:45AM and then catches his bus at 8:10. Well, our bedroom is RIGHT beside their bathroom so EVERY SINGLE MORNING I am woken up at 5:45 to the kid taking a shower. I asked DH why the hell he get up to shower, just to go back to bed until 7:45. It wakes me up 45 mins before my alarm goes off and I can never get back to sleep. DH said "well if it works for him, then why change things?!?!". Ok, fine! So, today, the same thing. 5:45 SS13 goes and has a shower.
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Just wondering if anyone has ever snapped on BM?! I'm reaching my limit and don't know how much more I can take!
So, BM just won't leave us alone. Every day it's something. Literally, everyday!!! Last night, she called DH's phone at 11:30!! On a Monday night! No emergency, just wanted money!!!! Lucky for her I was sleeping and didn't hear it or I would have lost it on her! But, to her, every night is a weekend! She wouldn't know what work is and heaven forbid that she actually get up in the morning to get her kids to school!!! I'm just wondering how many of you just couldn't take it anymore and snapped on BM? Did it help any, make things worse or really make no difference?