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Submitted by Annoyed1 on Mon, 01/28/2019 - 4:22pm

Has anyone ever heard of this happening? Child Support can be awarded indefinitely for children who are disabled and not able to work. This can be from numerous different things, autism, a physical disability, mental disability, etc etc. An acquaintance of mine has recently been told that he has to continue to pay child support, with no end in sight, for his son who has down syndrome. I remember always telling my ex to be careful, because BM was always wanting to take their oldest to a doctor to have him diagnosed. He was just lazy, but she wanted it to have a label.

OT: Having a Hard Time

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Submitted by Annoyed1 on Sun, 08/06/2017 - 6:18pm

I just need to make this post. I'm not necissarily even looking for feedback, I'm just hoping that doing this will maybe make me feel better. ANY better.

I'm currently 36 1/2 weeks pregnant. I'm high risk due to my blood pressure (and possibly age? I'm 35). I have to get a biophysical profile done on my baby once a week. He's doing great! Me, not so much Sad

OT - Dating Ultrasound Question

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Submitted by Annoyed1 on Fri, 02/03/2017 - 12:03pm

So, this is my first pregnancy and I'm a little confused. The start of my last period was Dec. 2/16. When I went to the doctors, they told me my due date was September 8, 2017. I just came from my first ultrasound and they said that I am 10 weeks pregnant today (when I should only be 9 weeks). How can I be 10 weeks? That would mean that I was pregnant a week before my last period?!?! I'm confused. On a side note, it was INCREDIBLE seeing the baby moving around and it's little heart beating on the screen!! 167 beat per minute too!!!

Oh the stress free life

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Submitted by Annoyed1 on Fri, 04/29/2016 - 4:18pm

I just thought that I would stop in and say hi Smile It's been over a month now since I left DH and I haven't been happier!!! Words cannot express the way I feel. I have no stress, no panic attacks and life is great! I'm even seeing someone! And, HE HAS NO KIDS!!!!!!!! OMG! I think hell has frozen over. hahaha. DH used to always tell me to "go find someone else" and "good luck finding someone with no kids".

I've officially left

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Submitted by Annoyed1 on Fri, 03/25/2016 - 11:16pm

Well ladies, it's official! I finally left my boyfriend/fiancé/common law partner of 11 1/2 years and I honestly couldn't feel more relieved!!!! I had my best friend come over and help me clean and pack his belongings as he and his 2 sons loaded everything up and moved it to their new place. I feel like the weight of the world has been lifted off of my shoulders! My house is spotless, everything's in order, and it's quiet and so peaceful! He was getting grumpy at the end and was complaining about everything and it just solidified it all for me. I am just so happy right now.

Seeking advice

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Submitted by Annoyed1 on Sun, 02/21/2016 - 7:31pm

I've been with DH for 11 years. I love him but I don't feel IN love with him anymore. I'm happy all the time except for when I'm with him. I feel it's the same way for him too. It's not like it's constant fighting or anything, there's just nothing there. I think he's physically attractive, but his personality annoys me lately. He won't ever touch or cuddle me unless he wants sex. He won't listen to me when I talk. He just zones out on his phone and doesn't listen to things that are important to me.

BM was "in the hospital"

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Submitted by Annoyed1 on Fri, 02/12/2016 - 12:04am

Update to my last blog, https://www.steptalk.org/node/226812. So, we've had SS16 for 2 weeks and DH was working on a project in bm's town. This morning BM texts DH and says that we'll have to keep ss16 longer cause she sick from her "surgery". Not 3 hours later, DH sees BM walking down the street, fighting with her BF. BM wasn't in the f'ing hospital!!! She's back with her BF who was a big reason all her kids got taken away by CPS!!!

The straw that broke the camels back

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Submitted by Annoyed1 on Tue, 02/02/2016 - 1:16pm

I'm officially done! I am looking at an apartment for myself and my furbies tomorrow afternoon. A quick background. BM had all of her kids removed from her care. SS14 & SS16 came and lived with us full time. This happened twice. The first time, we came home from work to their empty rooms. BM came and took them back while we were at work. DH went to court and the judge gave BM custody back. Fast forward 8 months, CPS removed them from her care.

I think I'm splitting up with DH...

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Submitted by Annoyed1 on Sun, 01/31/2016 - 10:31am

Well, DH may be purchasing his deceased moms house. Fingers crossed that he gets approved. So far, everything is looking good. If he gets it, I think I'm going to look into getting my own place as well. I love my DH, but I'm not in love with him. The hard times between us outweigh the good. There's always some sort of drama or something going on that I can't deal with or want no part of. DH made a comment to me the other day and it hit me like a truck. He said that he wanted to build a tree house in the backyard of his moms house.

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