IVe been married for 8 years. My husband took on my 2 children 11 and 14 at the time. My son is now 23 and my husband is always down on him and totally ignores him. He made a bad judgement when he was 18 and my husband has never forgiven him. I cant mention his name or it ends up in a row. My son has been diagnosed clinicly depressed but yet my husband laughs at this. My son gas done whatever he can to help heal this "hatred" but nothing works. I dont know what else to do. My son stays out.of the house as much as he can so an no arguements can happen.