Finally, an update on the events of last weekend...

As promised, I left the house Friday night without telling FDH where I was going. I stayed with my friends and had a relatively nice time with them. I was very glad I left. FDH texted me the next morning and said "I guess you decided to go to X city to see your family early". I told him that I was still in town.

I did as I said and took off and stayed with friends. We had a lovely evening. FDH messages me after I told him I wanted to visit my brother alone and acted like they were still coming with me. I said "I need to be away from you guys for the weekend. I am overwhelmed by the situation with SD and her parents. I will not risk my time with my family. This weekend has already been hijacked enough. I am angry, tired and need a good weekend without this bullshit".

I have a Netflix account and have for years. For the 2.5+ years I've been in the skids' life, I have shared my user name and PW with them so they could watch at their leisure on their computers, etc... I pay for it and it is not a shared household expense. It's never really been a problem other than it irks me that Netflix recommends shows for me that I'd hate based on skid usage. Oh and I have gotten pissy a few times when they've forgotten the password and interrupt our evening (usually really late) to text FDH and ask for it as if it is their god given right.

Last night FDH took SD to the therapist. (Getting her there is a blog of its own for another time). Anyway, while she was in there, he met with the Psychiatrist who will be doing a full work up on her to determine if she has some sort of disorder/diagnoses. I am still betting on the DSM "Shitty Parenting" diagnosis myself.