}:My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year.(We have dated in the past). He was married for 5 years. He has two children ages 5 and 7. I have a daughter who is 14. She controls him more than I ever thought was possible. She uses the kids as pawns, and because of the fear of her keeping them away from him, he does what she says. His son was eligible to go to kindergarten last year, she didn't feel he was ready and held him back. He gave her 70 cash weekly(without going threw the courts) to shut her up. It was for his day care payment.