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I'm angry and resentful all the time....how can I change these feelings

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Submitted by angel77 on Sun, 09/20/2009 - 11:09pm

Hi,
I think I need some advice. My partner and I recently went away on a romantic holiday and it was wonderful and relaxing and we had a great time.
The past year has been very stressful, especially for me as my b/f son (14yrs) suddenly came to permanently live with us.It's been a massive adjustment so I thought a lovely holiday would be the perfect thing we needed in our relationship.And it was.Until we got home and reality began to kick in once again.
I feel the resentment and anger toward my ss14 and I constantly feel tense and anxious again.

not adjusting to instant family...

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Submitted by angel77 on Wed, 08/12/2009 - 10:53pm

Hi,
Well,I'm new to this whole "step"situation so I'm so glad I'm not alone in my feelings.
Ok, I've been with my partner for almost 5yrs and we have been living together for almost 2yrs.
Last year, my partners 14year old son suddenly decided to come and live with us and my world has turned upside down.
I don't have any children of my own yet so the adjustment has been much harder than I expected.