Just came upon this site. Love it. I have recently resigned my post as stepmom. 2 stepdaughters ages 37 and 40. My hubby is 12 years older. I can so relate and am comforted in knowing that I am not alone. I've signed for cars, homes, babysat for, chaffeured, counseled, loved, and cared for, two of the most annoying, self centered, mean spirited, spiteful people ever placed on planet earth. They have even managed to turn the grand kids against me.